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Sexuality While Being Demisexual, Part 1

The Dynamics of Libido, Consent and Communication in Sexual Intimacy Photo by Farrinni on Unsplash “If we all knew that we were all perverts, we might be a lot happier.”—Heather O'Neill Article Series Note and Content Warning: This is a multi part series on demisexual sexuality. Having a familiarity with demisexuality, either previously or having read my initial… Continue reading Sexuality While Being Demisexual, Part 1

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Jealousy and Insecurity, Compersion and Confidence

How Not To Feed the Green-Eyed Monster and Tell Your Brain to Shut Up Photo by Mike Scheid on Unsplash “Jealousy is a disease, love is a healthy condition. The immature mind often mistakes one for the other, or assumes that the greater the love, the greater the jealousy—in fact, they are almost incompatible; one emotion hardly leaves… Continue reading Jealousy and Insecurity, Compersion and Confidence

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Safety, Sanity and True Consent

Understanding When Yes Really Means No Photo by John Matychuk on Unsplash “To be trusted is a greater compliment than being loved.”— George MacDonald Trigger warning: Sexual trauma and rape is discussed Jennie whispered, “Yes, Daddy,” as she knelt onto the foot of her bed. She was completely nude, with a crosshatching of reddened skin across her back, painted… Continue reading Safety, Sanity and True Consent

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Polyflexibility and the Pursuit of the Potential Perfect Partner

The Dynamic Spectrum of Polyamory and Monogamy Photo by Priscilla Du Preez on Unsplash “I reserve the right to love many different people at once, and to change my prince often.”—Anaïs Nin We lay next to one another, on a picnic blanket shaded beneath an oak tree. The secluded park was beside a calm lake, a cool… Continue reading Polyflexibility and the Pursuit of the Potential Perfect Partner

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Vanilla with Sprinkles, With a Side of Greens

Where Kink Is Concerned, The Whips and Chains Are Optional Photo by David W Bradford Content Warning: This is an article discussing alternative sexuality and many of the links provided are not safe for work. “I have no objection to anyone’s sex life as long as they don’t practice it in the street and frighten… Continue reading Vanilla with Sprinkles, With a Side of Greens

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Good Manners For Dining At The Y

Constructive Thoughts On That Most Intimate Kiss Photo by Christopher Campbell on Unsplash Content Warning: This is a rather detailed and potentially graphic article discussing sexual techniques (NSFW). I also will be using mostly physiological terms that a quick Wikipedia search may help for the unfamiliar. “Cunnilingus is a girl’s best friend. Cunnilingus is life. Everything else is… Continue reading Good Manners For Dining At The Y

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Ethical Vegan After Gastric Bypass

My Journey Back To A Plant-Based Diet Photo by David W Bradford “There is no fundamental difference between man and animals in their ability to feel pleasure and pain, happiness, and misery.”—Charles Darwin “Daddy, I don’t want you to eat piggies anymore,” my son pleaded with me as we walked out of the petting zoo.… Continue reading Ethical Vegan After Gastric Bypass

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One Stop For Demisexuality Articles

As much as I like Medium.com and their article platform, I've decided to keep my demisexuality articles here. There is no metered paywall, and all articles will always remain free to read and share. If you'd like to filter to just these articles, feel free to bookmark this tag filter.